November 04, 2025

I’m trying to help somehow… I know it’s always easier to give advice to others than to sort out your own problems. And it’s harder to truly listen to yourself and see the situation from the outside. But try to hear your inner voice, what is it telling you?

Try to feel yourself: your heart, your sensations. Trust your intuition… It rarely fails; it’s usually we who fail it. Sometimes having a mind is the problem, we think more than we should.

@Manka: It's nice to hear that you found someone, I'm really happy for you. Thank you for sharing and for talking to me ...

@Itsme: I don't know anymore. I don't know what to believe anymore. Everything is strange.

Are you sure they really deceived you? I’ve noticed how often I get caught up in my own thoughts, only to realize later that things aren’t quite as bad as I imagined. But if it truly is the case… then maybe being alone is the best choice for now. Try to erase them from your life by filling it with other people, other moments, maybe that will help..

And my bf was suffering just as you are right now because his ex was his first and big love. But time heals and he is happy again

Yes. I was alone for a long time till my 20th. I was so sad that other girls from my school were dating someone but noone even asked me out. I later downloaded an app called Slowly for making friends and English practising. Mostly for English. And one day a person wrote to me. We started talking and maybe after 3 years of online communication we met. And here we are, still together. My point is that you never know when you can meet someone. I met my first and hopefuly the last bf when I was 20. But till 20 I was all alone.

Did you found your second half ?

Noone knows for a fact whether they will be alone or not. Don't push such negative thoughts deeper in your mind. Because life is unpredictable and you may meet your person even tommorrow.