November 03, 2025

It's nice to see that I'm not alone..

you are not alone in that, hope it helps... We’re in the same boat :'(

I'm stuck and lost, but thank you guys...

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Our problems are so alike… I understand what you’re going through... wish you strench...

Maybe you need a correction in your medication. Because I was taking some pills for quite a long time and it was helping but not completely. So, the dosage was corrected and now I feel a lot better. Also, you have to learn how to deal with situations like that without pills. Because there is no garantee that you will take those pills your whole life. I made a mistake like that a couple of years ago. Psychiatrist prescribed pills + therapy. I thought I don't need therapy. But after a year when I stopped taking pills, the symptoms started to return. So, now I am on those pills but I also go to therapy and it really helps!

I thought about it... because I already take medication. But I'm not sure about that one...

I think you really need therapy. Because this situation is killing you. Have you thought about finding a therapist?

you are right... But I am so lost... I cannot feel myself anymore..

Well, you are not immortal and you cannot wait your whole life. Because she loses nothing, either she is with him or with you but not alone. I think you should tell her that you are tired of waiting and ask hom much time she needs to finish her relationshop. Or set a deadline yourself. Because if she decides to be with her current person, she will lose nothing and you will waste a lot of your precious time

She can't right now. She has to finish her relationship properly. But nothing is happening.

What does she say when you ask her that question?

Yea that's exactly what I'm asking myself all the time... But I think I can throw myself away because it doesn't make any sence anymore for me to try my best.

You can try an app called "Slowly". I cool app if you wanna find friends. As for your situation. If she loves you, can't she leave the person she is with? Because I think it is unfair that she is staying with a person she doesn't love

Unfortunately I don't have any friends anymore. They are all gone, have their own family and friends. The problem is I never was together with her. We just met and we fell in love. But she is and was with another person.

My boyfriend had the same story with his ex. They broke up and he was suffering a lot because he really loved her. But with time it became easier and then he found me. The pain stopped, only memories remained. So, what helped him was finding a new person. Do you have friends who can help you through this hard time?

I miss her so much you cannot imagine... Knowing that she is with another kills me.

Maybe you have "catastrophizing"? Or is it not about you? Because if it is, you better stop negative thoughts. Come up with a phrase that you will say in your head when you think about bad things. Sth like "Avada Kedavra" or from any film/game you like. Also, I heard that classical music can reduce stress. You can put on your earphones and try to listen to it if you want

I don't know... I'm sitting at work right now but cannot stand any talking, any noise. I'm just annoyed by anything. I just can't anymore...

Is there anything that can distract you? Hobbies or tasty food?