December 23, 2021

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Recently I saw a person on TikTok live and they reminded me of a person that I knew. The person was annoying and irresponsible, and I kept digging in my memories and actually I've met so much people who were like this. 

And now I'm worried, is it just something wrong with me? If so many people irritate me, maybe the thing I hate in them is in my personality too, and I don't like them because I act like them? Am I just projecting my hate on my personality traits on them? Other people never had a problem with them. Or maybe everyone was just pretending? 

You know, it's not even that I hate those people. It's like I genuinely don't understand them. It's beyond my mind and logic. I just can't understand what are they thinking? What's on their mind? Maybe I failed my socialization.
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ummakkl✓
Dec 23, 2021 · 39 views

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just.a.girlDec 23, 2021

@Ummakkl you are a bright soul, i can see. You just need the inspiration to make you realize your grand worth.

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ummakklDec 23, 2021

thank you @Just.A.Girl for leaving comments!! I appreciate it

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just.a.girlDec 23, 2021

and honestly i understand what you mean here, and i have done this many times often as well... I believe that maybe sometimes we tend to think of ourselve as our worse enemies, and most times it can be true for many... but being irritated with someone unknown or known can sometimes be a ping of envy for the other person... maybe you are shy and they are bold, and it is something you envy about them.... but i am not saying to change your ways; all i am saying is instead of leaving yourself irritated with the person, find something you like about them, and then mentally note something about yourself that you like more.

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just.a.girlDec 23, 2021

hi... im not sure how to respond to comments on here... but I responded to you on my last post.

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