Hi, this is me, a French woman, 33 years old, single. Today, I, once again, got disapointed...by a guy. Today, after two dates only with a nice guy, quite cute, who seems stable and lives a simple life, no trouble, he texted me saying "I want to be honest with you, you are a beautiful woman, very stable in your thoughts and the way you speak but I didn"t feel the "spark" even at the second date (as the 1st one doesn't really count as a date more like an introduction)".
I now always forces myself not to feel too excited when I meet a guy cause I can't help but imagine all kind of scenarios in my head when it seems like I make a connection with a guy. Then we go on a date and it never goes after one date, rarely after 2 even if I like the guy. I don't get it, I'm not dumb and I hate making drama. I'm annoyed, I'm sad and frustrated cause it's once again having to start the process all over again. Is it me who is weird and not used to dating on apps but people just seem to not want to take the time and get to know the other person a bit more? Do they really expect to just fall in love at first sight? I find it ridiculous, we need to perseverate but let's give each other the opportunity though, why is it so hard?? Anyway, I'm annoyed as it just gonna keep happening. It is hard to be optimistic when this just repeats all over again.
I'm gonna be here sharing those moments most likely cause I need to let it out and don't want my close friends to see me as that person, "the single girl who goes out dating but never succeeds".We all know one person like that and I'm so annnoyed that it is actually me as most of my friends are in relationship, I just didn't think it would actually happen to me at my age, it pissed me off.