October 21, 2020

I dont think youre unlovable.

No probs 😄 Opening yourself is good and necesarry to form a relationship. Everyone should be on the same page after all. That a lot of girls look for something serious, shouldn't be too surprising for guys. Yeah, letting go of stuff like this is unfortunately part of dating. But it can be hard.

Thank you for reaching out to me i was genuinely thinking that everytime i open myself guys get scared because they know that im serious about. Probably is just that maybe im not his type anymore and its ok i I just have to let that go.

Yeah probably not. It's still possible that he will reach out to you again, but it would take a lot of courage and he better have a good explanation then. It's unlikely. I don't think age is the issue, 3 years don't matter. Sadly this is often the case with these internet chats, they just suddenly end and one person saw they more meaning in them than the other. It sucks, especially when he was really your type. I've been there too. Sometimes you get an explanation sometimes you don't. But don't let this convince you that something is wrong with you. 🙂

Yeah that's right we talked about intimate stuffs and after that he started ghosting me and never replying again... and im 3 years older than him... we even talked about meeting eachother some day but it seems like you say maybe he's just not the one...

Was about to write the same here (again). But honestly it's great that you are such a loving person! Your need for a long term relationship is totally justified and as long as you are not rushing things it shouldn't be too scary. I don't know what happened with that guy, but it probably wasn't your fault, who knows what is going on with him.