July 29, 2020

i also wear the hijab, i think what your missing is the reason your wearing it. It should be a decision between you and god and not something you do for your mother. What you wear is suppose to reflect your intentions and if thats not aligned it can feel misaligned and off balanced.

When the time is right and you have enough money you need to get ou of your house and away from the people you feel make you wear the hijab.If you dont want to wear it you need to stop that asap.We only have one life!

@Lost boy - its actually misunderstood in many ways. The religions want modestly but based on intent and wanting to do it from the heart. People use it to balckmail anf manipulate and be forceful. The people who do such things are trash and are violating human rights not the religion :)

Oh no girlllll i feel for you :/ save up asap and move out with a roomate to split bills and work your life around and trust me it'll be the best thing ever, don't let your controlling mother manipulate you into doing whatever she wants. She's using religion to manipulate you into doing whatever she wants :/ stand up to her before its too late oresle sVe up to move out asap and you hardly have yo talk to her again

Thank you Farah... Actually I m too afraid talk to her about this because i haven't preparing anything yet(enough money) if she kick me out or even worse prison me more. I m working hard now n saving money to prepare myself for getting my freedom. I dont know how long. What i cn do now is surviving in her prison.

Just don't wear it if it's your choice, I don't wear one :) It's upto you when you want to on your own terms, nobody should force you to wear it or else it's useless without the intent. The Intent is the main reason - modesty should be your choice. Look, I get you feel trapped, Talk to your mother about it and that she's being unfair. I've wore it only a few times out of my own choice. Your mom want's to control you towards her own liking, please hold on and I'm n to sure how old you are but Stay strong and work hard to move out of the house for Uni and Live life according to your own choices! Study hard and be independent so nobody! nobody can tell you what to do <3

At first i think so Kiara.. but when I become adult... when i know what i like what i want and who i am... I cant do whatever i like because i m wearing hijab. Its like i cant enjoy wearing it like i use to be. I think like i m not ready to hide my hair, and wearing long clothes all the time whenever i go... I dont get... A chance to choose what i want and do... I dont hate to wearing hijab but not ready. I cant take big responsible by wearing hijab while i still love to wear t-shirt, short pan, short dress, and play with my hair. Idk... I just... Trapped in her hand.

I think she wants to protect u from this cruel world...

Im sick of human rights violating religious practices. Idk that's just my opinion.