Dear Diary, is this morally wrong.
So my husbands parents have never given us money. Even when we got married,
They said you want to get married you pay for it yourself. Which is totally understandable. Even when we have gotten a takeaway we always pay our share. So I can’t help but feel annoyed, pissed off and angry that they not only gave his brother £1000 deposit to rent a flat. They also are given them some money towards their wedding.
They are 22 years old and only been together one year.His parents are cheering them on, no negative words said. When we wanted to move in together we got a big long talk about, what happens if you break up and blah blah blah. We had been together 3 years before hand as well.
My husband is not bothered by this. I am trying to explain that it’s not just about the money. It’s totally morally wrong that they treat both the sons so differently. Why should this brother get everything and him nothing. I can’t help but be pissed off. He doesn’t want me to say anything. I really don’t want to go to this wedding. Just can’t stop feeling about this. Even if we were a bit better off money wise then his brother. It’s still wrong to give lots of money to one son then the other right.