I needed to hear this.
I found this post on facebook today and I feel like some weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Like some of my trauma has been healed or resolved. A screenshot of the post is at the bottom of this entry. I recommend reading it first for context before continuing on.
I was friends with benefits with this guy named Austin from January to about May 2018. He was so nice to me. So sweet. So gentlemanly. I asked him several times to date me so that I wouldn't have to stumble around trying to find someone to be with anymore. But he didn't want to be in a relationship like that, at least not with me.
I was hurt by that. "Why is he treating me so well if he doesn't want to be with me? 😭"
Well, as that post says, just because he was treating me right did not mean he was "the one" for me.
Oh.
We just don't belong together is all. It's okay.
And what I learned from that is how a man should be treating me. He did almost everything right. He was there for me when I needed him most.
I don't know if any of that has made any sense, but my heart feels lighter now.
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