December 15, 2025

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Dear Diary,


I saw a video on Tiktok of a group of women going out to brunch wearing the same grandma wig and I got so envious.... I get so envious whenever I see a group of friends having fun. Cooperating on the same stupid shit. Because I don't have one. I could've, but.... I no longer recall where it all went wrong. Was it time? Adulthood? Responsibilities? Or that I simply pushed them all away... I have no friends left... And as I grow older and older my heart becomes bitter and bitter... I abhor everything young because they remind me of everything I was once, everything I never did, everything I could've had, everything I could've been. My ex was right. I would end up an old lady with a bunch of cats. But even a cat, I don't have...


I wish.... I wish I had extroverted girlfriends like in those movies. The ones who would talk me down, say how ridiculous I'm being, force me to dress up and drag my ass out into some bar or a club, to help me forget about an asshole and help me find another asshole...


But I'm all alone.

Alone.

Alone...


They have other friends now.


At 15, I used to think I was so old. Because I was "halfway to being 30". Now, I'm even past 30...


God... Why? Why did society decide that at 30, women are expired? 😔 I am so old and undesirable.


I hate myself.

I hate men.

I hate the world.

Everything.


I should've died when I almost did.




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teardrops✓
Dec 15, 2025 · 42 views

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teardropsDec 18, 2025

Haha thank you for the recommendation 😅 Each of our hearts here seem to be still crazy for somebody else...

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teardropsDec 18, 2025

Yeah, it completely sucks when there's somebody else... But I envy that you still have a positive outlook on love... It just feels hopeless for me. I don't think I'll find my right person... Maybe some people are just meant to be alone. I hope you'll find yours, you seem like an incredible guy.

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teardropsDec 18, 2025

Hey 🙂 I'm from Asia and where I'm from, after 30, women are considered as "leftovers". I really appreciate you taking the time to comment on my depressing entries. I watched the video and I'm sorry but it only made me feel sadder and envious ☹️ I've never had that with anyone, I kind of envy you...

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ItsmeDec 15, 2025

How about I be your extroverted bestie? But deal — we’re not looking for assholes, only decent men. There’s this guy with the username How, he’s 30+ too, And don’t pay any attention to stupidcupid, some fake account

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ItsmeDec 15, 2025

Honestly, this video brings up some really specific feelings… It’s like watching me and my ex 🫠 it’s way too similar... The only thing that ruined our friendship was the fact that there was someone else...

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ItsmeDec 15, 2025

gosh... Look, just copy that: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQsx7KajBly/?l=1

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ItsmeDec 15, 2025

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQsx7KajBly/?l=1 Look, I watched this reel and realised — that’s exactly what I want. And that’s what I’m going to aim for in my relationships: being the funny one, the goofy one, making each other laugh. Dressing up like that, joking around, because honestly, who else can you do that with if not the person closest to you? You’ll find your person too, and you’ll mess around together in your own way, however you want. For me, that’s the dream - being friends first, being playful, being silly together, age is just a number

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ItsmeDec 15, 2025

heeeey... Don’t say that… What country do you even live in where women over 30 are considered old? Some women only have their first orgasm after 30, fall in love for the first time, finally learn to talk openly about things they used to be ashamed of, finally understand how their own bodies work. After 30, you actually start to know what you want from life. You stop chasing relationships just for the sake of it and start looking for something real, something with a future

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