June 01, 2025

@Violet I’m really touched by your message .Thank you for sharing your heart. It means so much to know my words helped even a little. Please don’t lose hope.sending lots of good vibes to you and your family

i hope everything gets better sweatheart

dear stranger, i dont know who you are or where you live but i appreciate and thankful for your comments....thank you so so much..I feel better after reading your people...your comments made me realize that kind people still exist....god bless you and your family..thank youu again

It’s clear you love your mom deeply and she sounds like an incredible woman, raising you and your brother on her own, protecting you, holding the weight. That is strength itself. Your pain is real, and so is your strength. I know it’s hard, but try to be strong not just for your mom, who’s already carrying so much but for yourself. You’ve already survived the hard part. Now it’s time to build the life you deserve. Be strong 💪

Hey, thank you for sharing this. First of all, you’re doing an amazing job expressing something incredibly difficult—in a second language, no less. That takes real strength. Now, I want to gently offer something and I say this with total respect: sometimes, the people who hurt us are also deeply broken themselves. Your father’s alcoholism doesn’t excuse what he did, but it might explain part of it. Addiction can turn people into strangers even to their own families. It's not just a habit. it's a sickness that warps love, warps priorities, and sometimes buries the person they used to be. That said, it’s still okay to feel angry. You deserved more. But maybe if and only if you're ready , you could try being the bigger person. Not for him, but for you. One phone call a month. Even a short one. Not to fix everything, not to forget, but to say: “I’m still here. I didn’t let this break me.” Sometimes, being the stronger person isn’t about forgiving everything. It is about refusing to let pain write your whole story. And just to be clear: you're not weak for crying, for missing him, or for hoping he'll change. You’re human. And your heart? It’s already done more growing than most people’s ever will. You’re doing better than you know.