to hate someone, and don't choose to love something or love someone. And what that does is that it silently destroys your life, because what hatred does is, that it silently takes control over your life. And the more control hatred has over your life, the less control you have over your life. If you love something and if you love someone, you choose to love something and you choose to love someone, and don't choose to hate something or hate someone. And what THAT does is that it silently improves your life, because what love does is, that it allows you to take complete control over your life. See the difference? That's the only difference there is between love, and everything that is connected to love, and hatred, and everything that is connected to hatred. Many people don't know this, and that's why they choose to hate instead of love.
They don't know that hatred is completely controlling their lives. And because they don't know that, they are silently destroying their lives. What for? Because they only know how to hate something and how to hate someone. So, if you really hate someone, forgive them, if you hate yourself, forgive yourself, allow yourself to move forward in your life by letting them go or by letting your old self go. Because forgiveness is not an act of hatred, but is actually an act of love. The more you forgive yourself, and the more you forgive them, the more you can move on with your life. If you choose not to forgive yourself, if you choose not to forgive them, you can't EVER move on with your life. If they hurt you in some way, just tell them you forgive them for hurting you.
If you hurt someone in some way, just tell them you forgave yourself and ask them for their forgiveness. If you choose to hate them, if you choose to hate yourself, and thus not choose to love them, and thus not choose to love yourself, you choose to be the prisoner of hatred, and thus not be set free by love. Many people don't understand how horrifying it truly is when hatred takes complete control over your life and makes you forget love, and makes you forget everything that is connected to love. There's short line between sanity and insanity. Just like love can make you do things, hatred can also make you do things you don't really want to do. But the difference is that love is the right choice, while hatred is the wrong choice. If you resent someone, forgive them, and just move on. It's in the past, and it's definitely not in the future, so don't
allow it to be in the present. It's how easy, it is how simple it is. It's a shame that so many people don't have a clue what they are doing with their lives by choosing to be full of hatred, instead of being full of love. Real life begins only when you think love, feel love, and believe love, when you choose love and everything else that is connected to love, over hatred and everything else that is connected to hatred. That's why I don't hate, that's why I only love. Because love is the only answer there is, while hatred is nothing but a problem that can only be solved with love.
Blessings