Leave me alone for sometime.

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Dear Diary,


I don’t know how everyone is so bothered about my breast milk. I mean, you’re not my mother to get that personal. Asking about my breast milk and if I am breastfeeding is one thing and complaining that baby is sick because of something I ate is another level of interference. To tell the truth I haven’t been breastfeeding for a while and getting accused for something I haven’t done and something that isn’t your business just makes me so mad. I am already struggling to get my supply back up and to get the baby latch and so many other things. I don’t need your advices on parenting and shit. I don’t care if you’re an old person sharing your wisdom. I just don’t need it. I am not disrespecting you. I just want to be left alone and be guided when I ask for it. Just because you’re old and experienced that doesn’t make you a pediatrician. 













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ratz✓
Jul 9, 2024 · 31 views

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ratzJul 12, 2024

Thanks love. My best wishes to you and your sister 😊

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SunshineJul 11, 2024

Congratulations !!!! I wish both of you a very happy and peaceful life <3

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ratzJul 10, 2024

hey hi. yeah I am doing good. I think you have once commented on my previous post on my pregnancy. Hope your sister and niece are doing good as well. And thanks a lot for your sweet words. I will copy it down in my notes and read them often 🥹 Oh and I got a boy 👶🏻

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SunshineJul 9, 2024

Oh Lord.... I really hope you're doing okey despite their bullshit. I accompanied my sister for several months after she gave birth to my baby niece. She, too, had similar problems. Hopefully for her, she is in a different country from her in-laws. But their comments were very toxic always trying to blame the sister-in-law for whatever would happen. The only advice I'm going to tell you is: "You are the mother, the baby grew in your womb and you are the closest person to him/her. You are the world to you baby. Put him/her and you in a cocoon and protect yourself and him from them. The baby and your mental and physical health is all that should matter to you. Also, my mom always said that each baby is different. There is no law for all motherhood is kinda instictive. Do your babies checkups at the hospital, ask your doctor about things you want to know and figure out the rest alone. Wishing you all the best <3

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