June 11, 2023

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Dear Diary,women not asking out men is just ruining everything. We will never know how it is to be liked by the other gender. And women will either get a lot of unwanted attention or feel like there is something wrong with them because they are not approached, which is a mans "job". All we men can do is either do that "job" and make many unwanted approaches that make life worse for everybody or be forever alone by not adhering to it. If we could only reset gender roles everybody would be so much happier. People say just do it, ask out some random women or ask out ones you first got to know. Do they not realize how screwed up it is to just do activities, to just get to know people for that purpose? For people like me who are not very social to begin with it feels impossible. There are no events designed for people like me to do activities they actually enjoy. Theater was nice for a while yes, but was I supposed to stick around just on the off chance that I find some girl there? The world is just not designed for people like me. I don't know what to do with myself anymore. Everything is so much better when you are younger. There always were activities made for kids where you could make friends pretty easily if you wanted. I still see them around, but of course those don't exist for adults. If they did maybe I could actually find a girlfriend :(




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It doesn't matterJun 11, 2023

It's because men are no longer that kind of men they used to be and women are no longer that kind of women they used to be. Today, men expect different things from women, and today, women expect different things from men. Men don't really know what women want other than what they are told that women want, and women don't really know what men want other than what they are told that men want. Men really don't know women anymore, and women don't really know men anymore. Men are as lost as women are. That's why men seek advice from their male friends, who aren't all that experienced at all, and that's why women seek advice from their female friends, who aren't all that experienced at all. Not experienced when it comes to love, of course. So you see, men listen to wrong advice and women listen to wrong advice. And so men don't really know what to do anymore and women don't really know what to do anymore. Men don't know whether or not to ask them out, and women don't know whether to wait for them or not to wait for them. Men don't really know what to do to make women interested in them, and women don't really know what to do to make men interested in them. That's why they turn to all kinds of books about sex, gender, and seduction, because just like men, women also want to know what to do. But the thing is, not all men are like that, and not all women are like that. There are men out there who know what to do, and there are women out there who know what to do. So, if a man waits too long because he doesn't know what to do, someone else who knows exactly what to do can take his place. And if a woman waits too long because she doesn't know whatto do, someone else who knows exactly what to do can take her place. And so what has potential to grow from an innocent crush to love, and from love to true love, never actually happens. And the reason why it doesn't happen is because just like men, women are also afraid to make that first step. Just like men, women are also afraid to act on how they feel, to act on their feelings. Their hearts already know what they feel and how they feel, but their minds just aren't willing to accept their feelings yet. Their minds just don't want to accept how their hearts feel just yet. And that's the mistake every man and every woman makes. When he or she is finally in love, when he or she finally finds love, when he or she finally feels love for another soul, he or she listens to her mind and he or she doesn't listen to her heart. And so what could be something incredible, amazing, and beautiful, and genuine in every sense of that word, never actually happens.

"We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect."

— Anaïs Nin