Dear Diary,women not asking out men is just ruining everything. We will never know how it is to be liked by the other gender. And women will either get a lot of unwanted attention or feel like there is something wrong with them because they are not approached, which is a mans "job". All we men can do is either do that "job" and make many unwanted approaches that make life worse for everybody or be forever alone by not adhering to it. If we could only reset gender roles everybody would be so much happier. People say just do it, ask out some random women or ask out ones you first got to know. Do they not realize how screwed up it is to just do activities, to just get to know people for that purpose? For people like me who are not very social to begin with it feels impossible. There are no events designed for people like me to do activities they actually enjoy. Theater was nice for a while yes, but was I supposed to stick around just on the off chance that I find some girl there? The world is just not designed for people like me. I don't know what to do with myself anymore. Everything is so much better when you are younger. There always were activities made for kids where you could make friends pretty easily if you wanted. I still see them around, but of course those don't exist for adults. If they did maybe I could actually find a girlfriend :(