January 08, 2022

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Dear Diary,


Today my parents were discussing smtg about the right age for marriage. They were like, "23-24 is the perfect age for a girl to get married.". WHATTTT??!!...I personally feel this is too early. Hate to break my parents' heart, but I won't get married until I'm 30. I want to work first, live independently and enjoy my singlehood completely before I dedicate my life to taking care of my family. 


My parents have kinda allowed me to choose my life partner, if I want. Their only condition is, someone of a good household and of our same caste. LOL XD


I don't like the concept of arranged marriage. It's so risky, you meet the person, after a few weeks or so you get married..okay...but what if, while living together, you find out that u both don't go well together, or that he is a bad person. There's nothing you can do...YOU'RE STUCK!!!


Can't say love marriages are perfect either. You never know when people change. UGH this love shit sure is hella complicated, especially for a teen :)


So without any further useless discussions, I'm gonna sleep, my eyes are really sore now watching all these kdramas ^^

Yours, RM ♡



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maddiee✓
Jan 8, 2022 · 108 views

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maddieeJan 13, 2022

Lol I'll try this African trick tooo ;D

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KiraJan 12, 2022

I used to say that I'll go marry some African man if u force me with same caste and same social standing to my parents lmao

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KiraJan 12, 2022

Lol I used to have this insecurity too but now I know it's my life and my decision and no one has the right to force something on me 🙂

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maddieeJan 10, 2022

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lettersfromanonymousJan 8, 2022

I have to get married before 30, because vietnamese culture even tho I'm half what ever my dad is, and it sucks, I'm like, 8 years away before 20-

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