I have so many thoughts during the day and I think, "I need to rant about this in a tod entry," but when I finally have time to write it, all of those thoughts are gone. I still feel the desire to write about those thoughts but the content is gone.
Last night I made a new friend on the talklife app. He kept calling me "lil one" and eventually he called me "lil princess" and oh my god I've never wanted to be called something so bad. I want to be hugged and called lil princess and kissed on the forehead. 😭😍
There's this app called bumble and it is mostly used to find dates or hookups etc ("bumble date"), but it also has two other features for making friends ("bumble bff") and I guess the other feature is for finding a job or networking ("bumble bizz").
I attempted to use bumble bff before but the one or two people that I "matched" with just kinda let the conversation die, like they weren't actually looking for friends?
The idea behind bumble bff is pretty neat since everyone has the expectation of just being friends. However, it is a struggle to find people that I want to be friends with. Granted, last time I used that feature, I only searched for female friends.
Almost all of those females were slightly different versions of the same person. Almost all of them white, clearly upper middle class or higher, loves brunch, having a night out with "the girls," taco Tuesdays, The Office, etc.
Like, I'm not rich, I don't have a car, I don't like going out at night, I don't want to get drunk and party with a bunch of strangers, I hate tacos, and The Office, while funny, is overrated.
And usually if the girl doesn't fit that stereotype, then they are like really far on the weird side of the spectrum. I'm okay with some weird, but like, they would be batshit crazy.
That was a couple of years ago so maybe it's changed (doubtful).
But I don't really want to get on there and look for friends because it might make me desire to use the bumble date feature. I really need to just focus on finding friends.
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