I found the straw that broke the camel's back and this is the final installment of Jon updates.
Content warning: adult/sexual themes.
Monday night, the 25th, I finally told Jon that I'm done waiting around on him.
I just want to be loved and yeah I made a "mistake" when I told him that I had previously suspected him of preying on naive, young, but legal, girls, but I asked to be forgiven and if we could move on and all he gave me was "maybe." I was sitting on the edge of a relationship for over a week and he wouldn't tell me how he felt. Said he needed time to think. If it's taking you that long, then it's clear that you don't want to be with me.
He told me, after I had started telling him all this, that he had started to think about coming over on one of his next days off. He literally could have said something earlier that day when he told me he chose to work double overtime than to see me. Seems like he would always find an excuse to not come see me. (Note: I don't have a car.)
Anyway, yeah, I told him I can't do this anymore and he went to sleep.
Tuesday afternoon (the 26th), I was in the car with my family on the way to the grocery store when my best friend decides to text me with some new information. This information needs to be preceded with some backstory.
Right about at the same time I started talking to Jon, I was talking to my lesbian best friend about how I'm dying from sexual urges during quarantine since I hadn't had any dick in about 3-ish weeks. I bring up the fact that one time she drunk-texted me saying that if I ever needed a "favor" or something that she could help out. I thought that was hilarious and I love bringing it up tbh, but in just a playful teasing manner. Anyway, we actually kinda start making plans for me to come over to her house after quarantine to cuddle, watch my fav TV show, and see if it goes anywhere.
Then Jon comes along. I mention how I think it would be maybe a fun time to have a threesome with him and my best friend. She had never touched or seen a penis in person and I had never had intimate relations with a girl. What could go wrong? Lol.
Well, turns out on May 19th, Jon had texted her outside of our group chat. I was completely unaware of them having any interaction outside of that group chat. This is the conversation that I got to see from her screenshots:
Jon: We still need to me up you and I
L: We definitely do. My sister has the week off and we have plans, but wanna try for next week?
Jon: What day next week would you be interested in cause I do work next weekend
L: Just about any day would work
Jon: Maybe Wednesday and perhaps get a room for the night if you are still interested (L 'loves' this message)
L: I am. 🙂 (Jon 'loves' this message)
Jon: 😍 I look forward to that
L: Me too.
(And then I can see a small sliver of a pic that he sent to her and I can make out that there is a door in this pic. Chances are high that this is a nude, probably including a dick pic.)
After the screenshots, she added, "We flirted some after, but 1) Im not interested in meeting up with him without you. 2) flirted because we talked about a threesome so shit why not"
It's worth mentioning that he lied to her about when he had to work. He was off this past weekend. It's also worth mentioning that when he had come to my house to see me on the 13th that he refused to get a room with me at a hotel or anything even after I offered to pay for it.
She waited a whole fucking week to tell me about this. I agreed to having a threesome with them, but never did I agree to them meeting up together without me. I'm pissed. They both thought this was okay. She didn't even bring it up to me because she didn't want to start any more drama between me and Jon and look what that did, now she and I have drama!
I'm not polyamorous. I can't be with someone who is also with someone else. They both know this. They did this behind my back. She was supposed to be my best friend. I trusted her.
Now I trust no one.
TL;DR: Don't trust anyone, even your "best friend," and don't try to arrange threesomes.
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