December 28, 2024: Someone clarify me. You don't know the person , You don't know how they behave in real (behaviour when you both knew each other), But you've seen them from far, And know how they behave from what you saw few times, And you know how they behave with others from far You don't actually know about their real self. But you feel like you love them. You want to make efforts for them. You want a family with them. But when you been asked by someone : Do you love him/her or love the idea of him/her? What should you say? I don't know. It's a situation that came for my friend. And I too was in this situation long ago. But I couldn't find the answer for this. And right now I still got no answer for my friend who is in this situation. Someone help me with your experience!!

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Dec 28, 2024 · 29 views

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reerorataJan 6, 2025

but it's a one-sided one. he too knows that he got no possibility just like me before. somethings we can't so anything but see and feel. sometimes we can't make someone like us back right? no matter how much efforts we make. or we can't even take an effort as it is a wrong thing. Mostly One-sided ones can't do anything and should accept their fate and move on it seems. nothing can be done. whether it is loving or liking a person or be loved or liked by a person.

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blooming_bubblesDec 29, 2024

You don't know how they behave or what they are like personally, only from afar? From afar you see what they are like with their friends, you can't know for sure what they'd be like in a relationship with yourself. So I think if you are already imagining a future together and are in love with them without spending a hugee amount time together personally, its likely that you like the idea of them. Your friend should spend time together with him/her to see if they like him/her truly !

"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you."

— Maya Angelou