Dear Diary,
I'm so sick of being upset over how the relationship turned out. I'm so sick of her trying to victimize herself to justify the breakup and blaming me for it. Making me out to be some toxic monster when she was the toxic one, but I didn't mind it because I loved her past that.
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Appreciate this a lot.
Unhealthy people will always find a way to project their pain onto you. It is inevitable. And I say that as someone who has a very complicated and long history of my unhealthiness hurting the people I care about. The more unhealthy she shows that she is, the more she victimizes and blames, the more you should be confident that it was the right thing to do. You cannot truly be healthy and happy yourself when you love someone you isn't either of those things. Knowing this doesn't make dealing with the pain any easier, but hopefully it gives you confidence in yourself and your decision. Keep your head up. You did the right thing.
"To share your weakness is to make yourself vulnerable; to make yourself vulnerable is to show your strength."
— Criss Jami
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