I’m thinking about one thing again and again recently.
It was friends of mine I used to exchange texts with like everyday. For a year.
But my life suddenly became dark two years ago. So I couldn’t reply them ever since. And it has been two years. I’m doing okay now.
But is it no good to say hi to them…?
Would people get confused or bothered if they got text in this kind of situation?
And how would I write them after two years? Can I just say hi and keep it short and make sure I don’t try to explain everything, then just wait how they react? If they seem to be not interested, I can let it go. Can it be a selfish act? Or not?
I think they and I were enjoy texting each other. And I feel guilty for cut our relationships all the sudden.
Actually it wasn’t first time and first time I made a two months absence, I explained to them.
If they want to talk to me again, they might leave a message for me already……? And they didn’t. So I shouldn’t show them my existence anymore…?
Do you have this kind of experience?
What is a good way you think?