December 01, 2021

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  Ok, not sure about this I keep getting told find a place to vent. So guess I will give it a try. It's been a long two months since Cary passed. It's still not even sure of the words walking in the house and facing an empty room when it's bed time. Thank God for Colton I know this is harder on him. Cary took care of him with me always working are hauling cows. Your mind goes wild when you realize you are totally responsible for your kid and how little you really know about him. Colton is a rock putting up with me, my cooking, doing laundry, learning his routine that list can go on and on. I wasn't near as mature at 25yr. As he is at 13yr. It's funny, I never realized how much Carey did day to day for us.   

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DonDec 17, 2021

Thank You

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A Trilion ThoughtsDec 17, 2021

Dear Don, My deepest condolences to you and Colton for the loss of your beloved Cary. My uncle passed away last week. I can’t imagine what you and Colton have been/are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Colton. I have recently come across some resources on grief that I thought might be helpful for you. This link includes how to address conversations with yourself, others and your kids, plus 2 different types of journals. (A grief journal and "Write their life" journal). The journals look like a good way to process grief and remember loved ones. https://bare.com.au/grief-support/ (You’ll have to copy and paste the website as hyperlinks don’t seem to work in comments). Here are words from a minister at my friend’s grandfather’s funeral: “Why is there grief? Because there was love.” I pray that God would cover you and Colton with His comfort and love and that He would surround you with a community to help you out in this difficult journey. Blessings, Li.

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