July 08, 2021 I don't like sex

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Dear Diary,

I don't like sex, I never liked it. Tomorrow I have to see my boyfriend, I tolerate to do stuff only because I'm scared to remain totally alone, but I really don't want to. 

I just don't like beeing touched, kissed, etc.

I never told to anyone, I just pretend I like it as anyone else, but I don't.

I feel bad for him, he lives in a lie, he think to make me happy and I just pray we finish fast, so we can do something more interesting, like watch a movie together.

It's a pity, I like him, he makes me laugh, I just hate sex (in general, not only with him).

I should broke with him, but I lost all my friends with the pandemic and my family situation is so bad that I can't face it totally alone. 

But I'm tired and depressed and the idea of having sex tomorrow just make me feel annihilated. I just want to lay down with a ventilator pointed at my legs and watch a movie.


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Piratessa✓
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PiratessaJul 9, 2021

onestly I don't know how to introduce this topic. I mean I pretended to be normal from to years now. I've found something about asexuals on internet, years ago, maybe I should try again to search informations. Thank all of you for yours words.

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Midnight NurseJul 9, 2021

I agree that you should talk to him about how you feel. Don't let anyone make you feel pressure to do something you don't want to do. There's asexual support groups online. Many people like yourself who are going through the same. I would recommend to join a group and find others who feel like you do. You are not alone. Take care🌼

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PiratessaJul 9, 2021

Theonewithapen, thank you for your support

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gJul 8, 2021

you really should discuss it with your bf,if you can explain it well,I'm sure he wouldn't mind.If you really don't wanna start that topic then a mere excuse such as you aren't feeling well or you're on your period can save you from unwanted pain.Hope this helps🌷

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