September 6, 2020

September 06, 2020

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Dear Diary, I was right Belle did contact me yesterday to meet. Today we go to the animal park and tomorrow we go to a sneak preview with another friend of hers.

Still I feel really bad today again. I read an article about "little hints" that women are suppisedly giving to men they are interested in. The biggest one being that they give them small casual touches. This scared me so much, because she never does this or anything else described there, except texting me late at night. And all these things she is doing with me, she is doing with other people too. So I'm probably just living an illusion 😥

In fact nobody ever did that "casual touching" thing with me, further cementing my thoughts that nobody likes me and nobody ever will. The only instance I can think of was when I was at a sort of uni party with my theatre group. I was sitting with my legs crossed, so one of my shoes was lifted up. And one of the girls from my group stood there for about a minute touching my shoe. It was weird because there was enough space for her to not touch it. So was that some hint and I should have done all that elusive flirting with her afterwards? Because she touched my shoe with her leg? I have no idea.

About 2 months later I learned that she has a boyfriend and it looked like they were together for some time. So had she been already in a relationship when she touched my shoe and it really was nothing?

She later also said to me, after forgetting to say goodbye to me: "You are the person, you always overlook." There is probably some truth to that.

So yeah I'm sorry to all the great women out there, but it just feels like you don't care avout us men, and me specifically. The only hints I've seen of women being really interested in a man were online. Maybe it's because I'm the guy you always overlook. Sucks to be me.

TitusAlone✓

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meruSep 8, 2020

Talk to her anyway about your feelings anyyway. Theres no point just carrying it around..

TitusAloneSep 7, 2020

No, she is a very extroverted person. And we have been alone in a forest at night several times now, so I don't think she would be shy about a cinema. I overreacted a bit I think. She likes to be together with a group of people, that's it. It's just a sign to me that she just sees me as a friend.

LightinthedarkSep 7, 2020

Do you think she might be shy about being alone with you?

TitusAloneSep 7, 2020

That mega heartbreak is probably going to come, just like last year with Knight and the year before with another girl I haven't written about yet. This is how it always goes. Just now when we agreed to go to the cinema, she asked me twice to ask other people to come too, even though I don'g know many people and of those none can just come to the cinema spontaneously in 2 hours. She doesn't semm to want to go alone with me, I don't know why and it makes me sad. Thanks for the advice, I hope you are right that she does cqre about me.

meruSep 7, 2020

hmm,.. I've been coming across your notes for a while, and I see you seem to be spending quite a bit of time with this girl. As a female, let me tell you, women would not waste time hanging out with men who they had zero interest in. And they certainly wouldnt take the initiative to meet, if they thought you were boring peace of rock. I'd suggest you have an honest conversation with her about your feelings, if you have any. If she does too, then its super sweet, if she doesn't, you save your self from a mega heartbreak in the future. Goodluck!

TitusAloneSep 6, 2020

Thanks, I hope you are right

LightinthedarkSep 6, 2020

Either that or she just enjoyed your company and didn’t know about the feelings you had for her

LightinthedarkSep 6, 2020

Hey! You’ll find soneone eventually. I think people often wait for others to take action so while you were waiting for them to do something then they were waiting as well to see if you were interested in them

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