August 13, 2019

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Dear Diary, recently a weird situation happened to me and made me question myself. I met a guy on internet and we immediately connected. He's nice, funny and I feel like he's somehow like me (we both have very few friends ands we are struggling with life). We have a lot in common and that's amazing, I am really happy I met him. But the thing is that he doesn't live in my country. I don't have any problem with the fact that we don't speak the same language or that we have different cultures. What bothers me and keeps me awake at night is another question. 


I know we both really like each other but I'm afraid this thing between us will only hurt us. We might probably never see each other or not before months and we will probably never live in the same city anyways. 

Should I stop everything now ? Before this hurts both of us?

I know that long distance relationship are possible but I'm afraid to ruin his love life with a relationship that is going nowhere. I don't want him to be stuck in a relation with a foreign girl living thousands of kilometers away. 


I really hope we will find a solution. Until then we will just keep sending memes to each other <3 

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SusanAug 14, 2019

Really sorry to read that it didnt work for you and this guys :( also thanks for your wise answer. Eventually things will work out in a way or another :)

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WallflowerAug 13, 2019

Dont get me wrong, i think long-distance relationships can work when love and commitment is reciprocated, but if you guys are young, you both are wasting your time.

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WallflowerAug 13, 2019

In my fourteen-year-old mind, I thought his love for me, so sincere and intense, could keep him from getting interested in other girls who he could take out on dates and stuff like that. I was shamefully wrong, for he met a girl at school and forgot the love promises he had made. I eventually met somebody else who lived in my town and eveything went smoothly right. So, you either keep talking to him and wait for who of you will first cut it off or tell him you must stop being naive and be honest with one another your virtual relationship is leading to nothingness.

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WallflowerAug 13, 2019

I know what you mean. I used to be in love with a guy who moved to L.A and couldn't come to visit me In Mexico because he was a illegal U.S immigrant. Though we were so away from each other, i felt as though we were bounded to be together like you. As time elapsed, nonetheless, he emotinally alienated from me and stopped saying he loved me. After my feelings of dissapointment and betrayal had abated, i realized i had been so credulous and ridiculous to belive we could work out as a couple.

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