Dear Diary,
My 81 year old grandma is difficult to travel with. Not only is it physically exhausting for her but she is very stuck in her ways and HAS to do things her way when she wants to. So excuse me when I'm upset that my cousin who just had a baby doesn't want to accommodate her grandma to visit the baby. I get that there is a waiting period that should be respected and such but come on. Your own grandma wants to travel 6 hours to come see your new baby. This grandma has lent you hundreds and hundreds of dollars when you call her the day of and also has stood by you and loved you unconditionally. This particular cousin has put herself and her children in harm's way by marrying her abusive husband. When almost all of us have given up caring our grandma has done nothing but love her. So we text and ask to bring grandma and get a shitty text saying the only time she can come is....... when she knows full well that that wouldn't work for grandma. I know its stupid but after all this cousin has put us through and all the shitty things she has done it's just so frustrating that she would treat her grandma like this and brush her off as though she doesn't care if she visits or not.
Oh fucking well I guess!