Dear Diary, yesterday my husband asked me about my fantasies, we had a previous conversation about if couples told each other their fantasies 2 days ago, I said "they don't because some people can't handle it," he on the other hand felt like they do share their fantasies, fast forward to yesterday when he asked me again, so I told him, verbatim, "I do have fantasies of him and I somewhere naked in a pool while it's raining" he quickly shot that down saying "a fantasy is of another whom its impossible to be with," so I say "so you fantasize about other women?" Of course he said "no," then I go on to say "well we have 2 kids and it's damn near impossible to have sex and even more impossible to be naked in a pool while it's raining without our kids" (because he don't believe in babysitters) so now he's shook as if I spoke on some strange man, he refused to eat dinner, have dessert or even make love smgdh. I should've just told him about another man if he was gonna go left on me.