April 20, 2023
When one finds comfort in his own overthinking, how is he supposed to stop?
Overthinking hurts, that's a given but it gives you two paths, one that will be opposite to what one thought, something good, which will give him incomparable joy, as what he thought was wrong, it was all a delusion.
another that will be the same as what one thought, which will hurt but not as bad as it would've if he didn't overthink.
How would one stop overthinking when there's a chance he'll either get incomparable joy or get hurt but not as bad?
Is there a solution to this? I am sure there is but who's to find it? For whom?
Personally, constant reassurance helps but that might get annoying for other people, it does.
No one will put that much efforts when all they get is a kid like tantrum with quick mood swings.
Who's fault is it?
Is reassurance too much to ask for?
It's unbelievable how one can not even get half of the love,care and reassurance he gave.
Why did he give all that? That was something he wanted but never got, he unconsciously tries to give it to his special ones thinking they'll give it back and if not, atleast they get what he doesn't/didn't.
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