Dear Diary, I understand that my husband wants to make our kids happy, but he cares not to make me happy much as we talk about us working on us so we don't divorce, but I'm starting to think that's what we should do since I'm of no importance to him. Let's see if the kid is all he cares about then. He hate to close the door and lock it on the kids therefore sex is rare and when we do have it he can't consecrated on me because he's thinking about what the kids are doing in the front room, then he wants to apologize for not being able to perform because his mind is thinking the kids will come to the door, I'M SO FED UP! don't get me wrong I love my husband and I make every sacrifice to stay with him because I don't wanna be weak but it has been 23 years and maybe that's enough for me it's painfully apparent that it's enough for him. I need some advice.