Okay, if you someone who has a fucked up family and is depressed and is almost never answering their phone I need you right now!

Okay so he is having a lot of hard times and lately he is barely picking up his phone, I know he needs time for himself and that is okay but I hate that he goes DAYS ON END without answering and I get so pissed!!!! But then he answers with some sob story and it’s like…should I apologize for being mad that he won’t even text me and say I’m okay or I just need time or something? Am I in the wrong? Because I get like that sometimes but it really isn’t that difficult to just text the person to shut up and leave you alone for a certain amount of time or tell them you are okay.